Epic Heavy Metal Wedding At Starborn Farms In Bristol, Quebec

Erin and Jeremy’s wedding was nothing short of legendary. Hosted at the stunning Starborn Farms in Bristol, Quebec, this heavy metal-themed bash was a wild blend of love, music, and unforgettable moments. From the rustic charm of the venue to the electrifying live performances, every detail screamed their unique style and passion for music.

Erin and Jeremy performing on stage with their band Beyond Driven at their heavy metal wedding at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride and lead singer of Beyond Driven, performing alongside her husband Jeremy, the guitarist, during their wedding reception at Starborn Farms.

Black and white images of Erin and Jeremy sharing a romantic moment on stage during their wedding reception at Starborn Farms, with string lights and a star decoration in the background.

The Venue: Starborn Farms in Bristol, Quebec

Starborn Farms set the perfect scene for Erin and Jeremy’s epic day. Nestled in Bristol, this picturesque farm features a charming barn, wide-open fields, and a chill vibe. The rustic backdrop added just the right amount of edge to the heavy metal festivities.

Erin, the bride, raising her hand in a rock and roll gesture while watching Jeremy, the groom, perform on stage with their band Beyond Driven during their wedding reception.

Close-up of a French Bulldog standing on a patterned rug, looking at the camera.

Erin, the bride, sitting and preparing her white lace-up boots while her French Bulldog stands nearby in the getting ready room.

Erin, the bride, looking at her reflection in a mirror while wearing her wedding dress, preparing for her wedding at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride, and a bridesmaid striking fun poses with their bouquets in front of a black Silverado truck on Erin's wedding day at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride, sharing a sweet moment with her bridesmaid as they stand in front of a black Silverado truck on Erin's wedding day at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride, standing with her bridesmaids holding bouquets in front of a black Silverado truck on her wedding day at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride, standing in front of a black Silverado truck holding her bouquet, with a confident expression on her wedding day at Starborn Farms.

Close-up of Erin, the bride, smiling while holding her bouquet in front of a black Silverado truck on her wedding day at Starborn Farms.

Jeremy, the groom, and two young boys standing on a road with a chicken walking in front of them and a blue truck in the background at Starborn Farms.

Close-up of a chicken walking on the road next to a truck tire at Starborn Farms.

Jeremy, the groom, being lifted off the ground by a groomsman in a playful moment on a road with a chicken in the background at Starborn Farms.

Jeremy, the groom, standing with his groomsmen and two young boys, all dressed in matching outfits, posing together in a playful group photo at Starborn Farms.

The Wedding Party showed up in old squarebody trucks, many of them belonged to the groom, Jeremy who owns Jer’s Auto Service in Ladysmith.

A decorated demolition derby car labeled 'The Wedding Crasher' with a sign reading 'Just Married, Erin & Jeremy, June 29, 2024,' at the wedding venue Starborn Farms.

Welcome sign on an easel for Jeremy and Erin's wedding, decorated with flowers and musical notes, at the entrance of Starborn Farms.

Guitar case used as a decorative sign with 'June 29, 2024, Erin & Jeremy' written on it, placed on the grass near the seating area at Starborn Farms.

A wedding display featuring a guitar, a lantern, and a sign that reads 'Our Love is Rockin' with antlers and a guestbook area at Starborn Farms.

Wooden arch decorated with flowers and guitars, set up for the wedding ceremony in the garden at Starborn Farms.

Beautifully decorated rustic barn interior with tables set for the wedding reception, featuring chandeliers and string lights at Starborn Farms.

Silhouette of Jeremy, the groom, and his groomsmen standing in a rustic barn entrance, with Jeremy playfully giving a peace sign before the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms.

Guests seated and waiting for the outdoor wedding ceremony to begin at Starborn Farms, with some guests walking towards the seating area.

Black electric guitar decorated with flowers, leaning against a wooden arch in the garden at Starborn Farms.

Sunburst electric guitar decorated with flowers, leaning against a wooden arch adorned with a floral arrangement in the garden at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride, walking with her bridesmaids down a path at Starborn Farms, all smiling and holding their bouquets.

Wedding guest playfully sticking out her tongue while posing for a photo at Starborn Farms.

Musician performing under a blue canopy tent at the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms.

Danny Sylvestre (grammy nominee) played all of ceremony songs, they were meaningful songs that I picked and Jeremy did not know about – Erin

Jeremy, the groom, and his groomsmen laughing and enjoying a moment together before the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms.

The Ceremony at Starborn Farms

Erin and Jeremy’s ceremony was as unique and heartfelt as their love story. The couple wrote their own vows, adding a deeply personal touch to the ceremony. In a beautiful departure from tradition, their children walked them down the aisle, making the moment even more special.

Erin’s father played a significant role, not only by building the wedding arch but also as the MC for the day. The arch, a symbol of their union, stood proudly as a testament to family bonds and craftsmanship. Adding a fun twist to the ceremony, Doug, their bass player, took on the role of the beer boy instead of the traditional flower girl and ring bearer, handing out cold beers to guests.

The ceremony, orchestrated by Erin’s sister, was music-themed, perfectly aligning with the couple’s passion for heavy metal. The unique blend of personal elements and rock ‘n’ roll spirit made the ceremony a true reflection of Erin and Jeremy’s journey together.

Jeremy, the groom, walking down the aisle with a bridesmaid and a young boy, smiling as they approach the ceremony area at Starborn Farms.

Bridesmaids standing together, holding their bouquets and smiling during the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms.

Wedding guest walking down the aisle with two cans of beer in hand, entertaining the crowd as he passes by at Starborn Farms.

Close-up of a wedding guest raising two cans of beer in celebration while wearing a beer holster at Starborn Farms.

Wedding guests laughing and reaching out as a guest with a beer can approaches them during the ceremony at Starborn Farms.

Erin, the bride, walking down the aisle with a young boy at her side, approaching the ceremony area at Starborn Farms.

Jeremy, the groom, standing at the altar and looking down the aisle, waiting for the bride at Starborn Farms.

Jeremy, the groom, standing at the altar with his groomsmen holding beer cans, as Erin, the bride, approaches him at Starborn Farms.

Erin and Jeremy standing under a wooden arch during their outdoor wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms, with bridesmaids and groomsmen on either side and guests seated in the foreground.

Groomsmen lined up at the outdoor wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms, wearing black shirts and jeans, while guests seated in the foreground watch the ceremony.

Bride reading her vows during the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms, with bridesmaids and groomsmen standing in the background, the groom listening attentively.

Guests attentively watching the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms, with people of all ages seated on chairs in an outdoor setting.

Guests at the wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms, with elderly women seated and smiling, and others standing in the background, enjoying the event.

Wide shot of a wedding ceremony at Starborn Farms, with guests seated on either side of the aisle and a dramatic cloudy sky overhead. A guitar case with wedding details stands near the white canopy.

Close-up of wedding guests seated and attentively watching the ceremony at Starborn Farms, some taking photos with their phones.

Bride and groom exchanging vows under a wooden arch adorned with flowers at Starborn Farms, with the officiant standing behind them.

Bridesmaids in black dresses holding bouquets, standing in a vineyard at Starborn Farms, with a videographer capturing the moment.

Bride and groom sharing their first kiss under a wooden arch decorated with flowers and guitars, surrounded by bridesmaids in black dresses and a groomsman holding a drink at Starborn Farms.

Bride and groom standing under a wooden arch during the ceremony at Starborn Farms. The bride points to the audience while the groomsmen stand in the background with drinks, and bridesmaids in black dresses holding bouquets.

Our friend, Michel Danis, shredded the wedding march on Electric Guitar, dressed as Buckethead, a famous guitarist. – Erin

Bride and groom sharing a kiss under a wooden arch adorned with floral arrangements at Starborn Farms. The groom holds the bride close as they kiss, with two electric guitars placed beside the arch. On the right, a musician dressed as Buckethead plays guitar under a blue canopy.

the groom raises his fist in celebration as he stands with the bride under a wooden arch adorned with flowers at Starborn Farms. Bridesmaids and groomsmen stand nearby, and guests can be seen capturing the moment.

guests watch the ceremony, some standing and some seated, in a lush green field with trees and a barn in the background.

The newlywed couple holds hands and walks down the aisle, smiling and pointing towards guests at their wedding at Starborn Farms. The bride is wearing a white dress with a thigh-high slit and white boots, while the groom is in a black shirt with a brown tie and jeans. Guests and bridesmaids, dressed in black, are visible in the background, capturing the moment and celebrating.

The newlywed couple walks hand in hand down the aisle, smiling and looking at each other. The bride, dressed in a white gown with a thigh-high slit and white boots, touches her chest in a gesture of emotion. The groom wears a black shirt with a brown tie and jeans. Guests, including a person in a wheelchair and others taking photos, are seen in the background. Bridesmaids dressed in black hold bouquets and stand under a decorated arch at Starborn Farms.

A guest at the wedding holds a case of Coors Light beer, smiling broadly. He wears a beige baseball cap and a Hawaiian shirt.

Another guest, dressed in a black shirt with brown suspenders and jeans, stands outside the barn at Starborn Farms, laughing and looking amused. In the background, more guests and a bridesmaid can be seen enjoying the event.

Wedding party photo in front of a rustic barn at Starborn Farms. The bride, in a white dress, and the groom, in a black shirt and jeans, stand center. Bridesmaids in black dresses and groomsmen in black shirts and jeans with brown ties stand on either side. The backdrop features stone walls and wooden barn doors covered in green vines, adding to the rustic charm.

Wedding couple with two children in front of a rustic barn door at Starborn Farms. The bride, in a white dress, and the groom, in a black shirt and jeans, are flanked by two children. Green vines add a touch of nature to the stone wall backdrop.

Silhouette of the bride and groom standing in a doorway, sharing an intimate moment at Starborn Farms. The rustic scene outside and a guitar leaning against the doorway frame the couple beautifully.

Wedding party standing in front of a rustic barn at Starborn Farms, celebrating joyfully with bouquets tossed in the air. The bride in a white dress and the groom in a black shirt and jeans are surrounded by their attendants in black attire, showcasing a mix of playful and triumphant poses.

Bride and groom with the wedding party posing around a black pickup truck at Starborn Farms. The bride, seated inside the truck, looks at the groom, who leans against it. The wedding party stands in the truck's bed and around it, all smiling and dressed in coordinating black and tan outfits.

Bride with tattoos sitting confidently in the driver's seat of a black pickup truck at Starborn Farms, looking to her left.

the bride and groom share a kiss, embracing in front of a rustic barn, highlighting the bride's detailed tattoos and the groom's long hair.

Close-up of the bride and groom sharing an intimate kiss at Starborn Farms, with the groom gently holding the bride's face. The bride's detailed arm tattoos and pearl hair accessory are prominently visible, and the groom's long hair and beard add to the romantic atmosphere.

The bride and groom standing in a green, leafy pergola at Starborn Farms. The groom has his arm around the bride's waist while she rests her hand on his chest, and they both smile at the camera.

the couple sharing a kiss under the pergola, highlighting their affectionate connection.

The bride and groom share an intimate kiss in a wide-open field at Starborn Farms. The black and white photograph captures the rustic and serene landscape, with two tall tree trunks framing the couple. The bride's gown flows elegantly on the grass, adding a touch of romance to the scene.

The bride and groom embrace in a lush, open field, their faces inches apart as they share a tender moment. The bride's white gown flows gracefully, and her intricate tattoos add a unique touch to the romantic scene. The groom, in a black shirt and jeans, holds her close, highlighting the rustic charm of their wedding at Starborn Farms.

The bride and groom share a passionate kiss at sunset, with the groom holding a beer can in one hand and cradling the bride's face with the other. The bride wears a denim jacket over her wedding dress, adding a casual touch to the intimate moment. In the foreground, a young guest enthusiastically pumps his fist, adding a playful element to the scene against the backdrop of Starborn Farms.

The Reception at Starborn Farms

As the sun dipped below the horizon, the barn morphed into a full-blown concert venue. Erin stunned in a custom-cut white gown with a stylish slit and sported Converse boots, adding a perfect rock-chic vibe to her look. Jeremy kept it cool in jeans, a dress shirt, and work boots, staying true to his rugged style. Their first dance was pure magic. The night continued with high-voltage performances from their band, Beyond Driven, keeping the energy levels sky-high.

Erin and Jeremy are passionate about demolition derbies, so they built a derby car for their wedding, called the “Wedding Crasher.” Jeremy will be driving this custom creation at the Shawville Fair. The custom signs and flag on the car, as well as the wedding entrance sign, were crafted by @enseignes pontiac, adding a personal and artistic touch to their celebration.

Guests gathered outside a barn during a wedding reception, with a car labeled 'Wedding Crasher' parked nearby.

A llama sitting on rocky terrain surrounded by greenery and trees on a cloudy day.

A couple standing in front of vintage trucks, leaning in for a kiss during an outdoor event on a cloudy day.

Two women posing for a picture, one standing and the other in a wheelchair, both smiling and making hand gestures during an outdoor event with string lights and a rustic barn in the background.

A man and woman smiling and posing together during an outdoor event, both holding drinks with a rustic barn and string lights in the background.

Two young people wearing reflective sunglasses and making excited gestures on a wooden deck, with several women in black dresses standing in the background.

Wedding reception table decoration featuring a glass bottle with feathers, a lace-covered animal skull, and a vinyl record labeled 'Destruction Manual' surrounded by sheet music.

Chalkboard sign leaning against a wooden structure that reads 'grab a drink cheers!' with decorative white lettering and a small flower at the top.

Unique Decor & Details

Erin poured her heart and soul into creating the wedding decor. With the help of local farmers and hunters, she managed to obtain enough skulls for every table, adding a unique and edgy touch to the venue. A special shoutout goes to Alex Mahon and his family for their invaluable help.

The photobooth featured stars behind dark sheers, branches in front with music note leaves, and a frame adorned with sheet music, all centered around a cozy couch. A chalk-painted piano covered in candles added to the enchanting atmosphere.

Guests left their well-wishes on a guitar guest book, another nod to the couple’s love for music. The custom cake, crafted by Tabitha, owner of “Bite Me” custom cakes in Pembroke, was a showstopper. Shaped like car tires with music notes bursting out of it, the cake featured tiers of black forest, Earl Grey/honey, and red velvet. Erin made the custom cake toppers herself, using Aquaman and Wonder Woman action figures.

Rustic barn wedding reception setup with wooden walls and string lights, featuring a head table decorated with antlers, floral arrangements, and a neon 'Til Death' sign framed by greenery.

Wedding favor with a guitar pick cookie reading 'I Picked Erin' placed on a table with sheet music and decorative elements.

Wedding reception table set with black tablecloth, beige table runner, and decorated with antlers, feathers, flowers, and sheet music. Napkins and guitar pick cookies as wedding favors are placed at each setting.

Vintage beige couch with blue patterned pillows and a heart-shaped sequin pillow in a rustic wedding venue.

Decorative white piano adorned with candles, antlers, sheet music, and a heart-shaped sign with the word 'LOVE' in a rustic wedding setting.

Guests were treated to a trough full of free non-alcoholic beverages and a buffet of amazing finger foods, salads, wraps, sandwiches, desserts, and much more. The “serve yourself” style spread, available from 7pm to 11pm, ensured that there was no waiting for numbers to be called. All the delicious food was made by Suzie’s Diner, adding to the casual, yet delightful, dining experience.

Bridesmaids in black dresses dancing and celebrating inside a rustic barn wedding venue with chandeliers and string lights.

Guests dancing and celebrating inside a rustic barn wedding venue, some wearing sunglasses.

live band performing on stage with colorful lighting.

Bride singing and groom playing guitar during their wedding reception in a rustic barn with red stage lighting and a live band.

Beyond Driven: The Heart of the Night

Erin and Jeremy are not just soulmates but also bandmates in Beyond Driven. Their wedding was not just a celebration of love but a showcase of their musical prowess. The band’s electrifying performance set the stage ablaze, reflecting the couple’s deep-rooted passion for heavy metal.

Check out Beyond Driven on Facebook for more updates and music from Erin and Jeremy!

Guests enjoying speeches during a wedding reception in a rustic barn decorated with string lights and candles.

Erin & Jeremy performed their wedding song, a heartfelt rendition of “We Found Love” by Rihanna. Jeremy played the guitar while Kyle accompanied them on the piano. Halfway through the song, they put down their instruments, and Kyle continued playing as guests joined them on the dance floor, singing the chorus together. It was a magical moment that perfectly captured the essence of their love and connection.

Bride and groom performing a song with an acoustic guitar during their wedding reception in a barn with red lighting.

Bride and groom sharing a slow dance during their wedding reception in a rustic barn.

Bride and groom's first dance under string lights in the barn.

The Guests and the Fun at Starborn Farms

Guests fully embraced the heavy metal theme. Many sported band t-shirts and leather jackets. The photo booth with props like guitars and fake tattoos added a fun twist, capturing the spirit of the evening in epic snapshots.

Two couples dancing joyfully at a wedding reception in a rustic barn, with warm bokeh lights creating a festive atmosphere.

Guests enjoying the live music and rustic decor at Starborn Farms.

A joyful couple laughing and hugging while dancing at a wedding reception in a rustic barn, with warm bokeh lights in the background creating a festive atmosphere.

Live Music and Entertainment

The night was alive with incredible performances from three amazing bands, all friends of the couple: Destruction Manual, Stereo Typical, and Ginny and the Re-Arrangers. Each band brought their unique sound, adding to the electrifying atmosphere. DJ Chris Godin kept the energy high, ensuring that guests were dancing between sets and long after the bands had finished playing.

A black and white triptych of a rock band performing. The left image shows a guitarist and vocalist singing passionately into a microphone, the middle image shows a drummer playing energetically, and the right image shows a bassist deeply focused on his performance with stage lights in the background.

A woman and a man standing together at a wedding reception in a rustic barn. The woman is holding a microphone and reading from a note while the man is holding a drink can, with a band playing in the background under soft purple and blue lighting.

A group of people at a rustic barn wedding reception, standing near the bar. They are smiling and enjoying drinks, with one man humorously puffing out his chest. The bride and groom are among them, with the bride in a white dress and the groom in a black shirt with long hair. The background features wooden beams, hanging lights, and an old wagon wheel.

the bride and groom celebrating with guests, the groom raising his arm triumphantly while others cheer and clap.

a band performing, with a drummer and keyboard player in focus, set against the wooden interior of the barn, illuminated by string lights.

A black-and-white photograph of a live band performing at a rustic barn wedding. The scene captures a female vocalist center stage, flanked by two guitarists, with a drummer in the background. The wooden interior of the barn, illuminated by subtle lighting, adds to the intimate and nostalgic atmosphere of the performance.

The bride, Erin, cheering with guests and enjoying drinks at the wedding reception.

Wedding guests, including a woman raising her arms in celebration, cheering and enjoying the reception at Starborn Farms with Erin smiling in the foreground.

Wedding guests, including children and adults, holding hands and dancing joyfully at Starborn Farms during Erin and Jeremy's reception.

Band performing on stage with vibrant purple and blue lighting at Erin and Jeremy's wedding at Starborn Farms.

Guests in cowboy hats dancing and having fun during Erin and Jeremy's wedding reception at Starborn Farms.

Live band performing heavy metal hits at the wedding reception.

A musician playing the guitar on stage during Erin and Jeremy's wedding at Starborn Farms in Bristol.

Erin and Jeremy dancing together while a band performs on stage at their wedding at Starborn Farms in Bristol.

Guests enjoying the live music and rustic decor at Starborn Farms in Bristol, Quebec.

Beyond Driven Guitarist making a funny face while playing the guitar, with Erin singing in the background during the wedding reception at Starborn Farms in Bristol.

A lively wedding reception performance at Starborn Farms with a guest enthusiastically interacting with the bassist on stage, while the bride sings and the drummer plays in the background.

Erin singing and raising her arm with confidence, while Jeremy passionately plays the guitar during their wedding reception performance at Starborn Farms in Bristol.

Erin and Jeremy performing on stage at their heavy metal wedding at Starborn Farms.

Jeremy passionately playing the guitar with a vibrant stage background at Starborn Farms during his wedding reception.

Beyond Driven drummer energetically playing the drums during the wedding reception at Starborn Farms, with vibrant stage lighting enhancing the lively atmosphere.

A guitarist passionately playing on stage at the wedding reception at Starborn Farms, his hair flying as he rocks out in a Slayer tank top.

Jeremy playing the guitar with his hair flying in the air.

Erin rocking her wedding dress and guitar on stage.

The bassist for Beyond Driven rocking out with hair flying during a live performance at the wedding reception at Starborn Farms, with the bride singing in the background.

Guests at Erin and Jeremy's wedding at Starborn Farms taking a selfie with a phone while holding drinks, with soft string lights in the background creating a cozy atmosphere.

The bassist from Beyond Driven performing energetically on stage, wearing a Rolling Stones tank top, with dramatic stage lighting highlighting his expressive performance.

Erin and Jeremy’s wedding at Starborn Farms in Bristol, Quebec, was a true testament to their love and individuality. It was a night packed with music, joy, and unforgettable moments. Congrats to the newlyweds on their epic journey together!

Bride and groom sharing a kiss on stage at Starborn Farms, surrounded by a vibrant light show.

I want to give a huge shoutout to Kelsey Stanley, who was our wedding day manager, and made sure that we remained on schedule and ran like a mad woman to fix any issues that came about, she was the superstar of the day. – Erin

Ottawa Valley Amazing Wedding Vendors

Venue Straborn Farms
Wedding Day Manager: Kelsey Stanley – Kelsey was the superstar of the day, ensuring everything ran smoothly and on schedule.
Florist: Melissa’s Little Flower Shop – Created beautiful bouquets and boutonnières with music note flowers.
Music for Ceremony: Danny Sylvestre – Grammy nominee who played meaningful ceremony songs.
Wedding March: Michel Danis – Shredded the wedding march on electric guitar, dressed as Buckethead.
Custom Signage: Enseignes Pontiac – Created custom signs and flags for the wedding.
Wedding Cake: Tabitha, owner of Bite Me Custom Cakes in Pembroke – Made a three-tier custom cake.
Catering: Suzie’s Diner – Provided a buffet of finger foods, salads, wraps, sandwiches, desserts, and more.
Live Bands:
DJ: Chris Godin – Kept people dancing between sets and after the bands were over.
Hair and Makeup: Studio Glam and Nicole Chartrand – Provided hair and makeup services for the bride and bridal party.
Custom Cookies: Cbaybakes – Created custom cookies for the wedding.
Bartenders: Leona and Wendy Lalonde – Managed the bar services for the wedding.